True transformations happen only under pressure and challenge.- Blair Singer
I have found that when you want a comprehensive transformation, it needs to happen in all areas of your life. This is best achieved by learning to let go, and release any negative emotions attached to an experience or a person.
People tend to create minimal results, or temporary results, when they only focus on working on one to two areas of their life. Then, they get frustrated and revert back to old behaviors and attitudes, thinking that their effort didn’t pay off.
In my experience as a mentor, I have studied and come to understand that the person has the ability to experience dramatic, lasting results if new actions are taken in ALL 5 areas of a person’s life.
How can you create permanent transformation in your marriage? By looking at your challenge through all 5 paradigms and choosing at least one action step in each area.
If you are experiencing difficulty in your finances & money in your marriage, ask yourself the following questions:
“How can I think differently about this?”
“What’s a physical action I can take to improve the situation?”
“What emotion is attached to this? And how can I release it?”
“How can I shift my relationship to this, and create more spiritual connection in this area of my life?”
“What behaviors am I indulging in that are sabotaging my results? What actions & habits can I chose to support my goal?”
Looking at any area of your life through these 5 paradigms will assist you in getting lasting, effective improvement in your life.”